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Nancy M (It is important to help new animals have a successful transition from shelter to new home, or from one home to another. Cindy and Kathleen McIntyre offer this service as a part of A Heads Up. Click here for more information). |
Kristie B and TristanBeverly Hills, CA The first time I was on the phone with Cindy on the east coast, she knew that Tristan, whom I was standing next to in his stall here in California, had just silently touched a new toy in his stall and "wanted me to know he was grateful and loved it." My hair stood on end, and I was an instant believer. I've sent over 20 people her way and no one has been dissatisfied. On topics ranging from negotiating behavior issues, health questions, all the way down to travel plans, I've been using her about once a month to keep in touch with my horse ever since. I have always felt close to the horses I've owned in my life, and sought to feel in sync with them – but truly hearing Tristan's thoughts and actually communicating with him has taken my relationship with him to an entirely different level. He is calmer, and more centered, knowing he is truly seen and heard and his needs are going to be met. When we make eye contact, there are layers upon layers of love and a deep, centered, mutual understanding I know we could not have achieved without Cindy. She's taught me to connect with him myself, too, and it's a skill I work on honing every day. I could not be more grateful for Cindy Smith. |
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Ever greeted me with alarm, ”What’s going on? Why can’t I see my friends? It is so noisy! I’m frightened! I’m afraid I will be forgotten!” Ever explained that he was afraid he would be forgotten when shut in the storage area and that is why he barked and barked. He said that occasionally Ah-ra’s mom would burst into the room, grab something from the shelves, and rush back out ”forgetting him again”. Ah-ra translated that statement to her mom who confirmed that she did frequently burst into the room and rush back out. Ever was very distressed. I first explained the differences between the pub and the restaurant, and that his “job” at the restaurant would be different. Instead of greeting the patrons, he could keep an eye on everyone working in the kitchen. He would now be the ”kitchen manager”. Ever requested that the door stay open so that he could watch what was going on. Ah-ra and her mom agreed that they could tether Ever in the room with his bed and food and water. That way he could watch the activity in the kitchen and be assured that he had not been forgotten. Ever also requested a small cardboard box that he could choose to get in to take a nap. He wanted a contained and quiet setting and the cardboard box would muffle the sounds. He explained that the kitchen clatter and shouted instructions were unsettling to him. He interpreted the kitchen noise as a constant emergency happening, and that in all the excitement, his people would leave him behind. We explained that the emotional voices were not about danger, but rather about preparing meals for people who are hungry and in a hurry. Ah-ra set him up with all of his requests and he immediately settled down. She later e-mailed me from her vacation and said that her parents reported that Ever had stopped all the barking and seemed quite relaxed as he watched them from his cardboard box. Ah-ra’s father took Ever on errands so that he could see all of his old friends from his pub days in the village. Ah-ra Cho frequently translates conversations with Cindy and So. Korean dogs and their people. She can be reached at coffeecooler@naver.com. |
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The dogs have almost completely stopped barking inside the apartment! The most incredible unbelievable change is they no longer bark when I come home!! Since our phone conversation with you, they greet me at the door with tails wagging, sneezes and kisses in silence!!! This is truly incredible! Will you please tell them how much I appreciate this change and to keep up the their kind consideration for our neighbors!!??!! And when they do go to the window when they hear an external sound from outside, they bark a bit, after which I thank them and tell them that's enough. Then they look at me with an understanding face and stop barking as if to say, "my job is done here." The change in us feels profound and happier!! |
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Then, after the foal came, I asked Cindy to help me prepare Savvy and her son, Tyler for weaning. Well, Tyler is now weaned, and everything went so smoothly. The horses never stopped eating or lost weight – just a bit if mild calling back and forth, but they have weathered it beautifully. Working with Cindy has made a big difference in how I handle my horses – I feel like I have much more insight into their personalities. Cindy's style is great – I will be calling again! |
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Guy A. Cheek, DVM
Brunswick, GA As a veterinarian and a horseman, I've worked with Cindy and had some pretty amazing results. There is no doubt that there is communication occurring when you watch these horses as Cindy telepathically communicates with them. She has been accurate picking up physical problems and has solved behavioral issues we were having with some of our horses. I've referred clients to her after exhausting all the physical possibilities for a problem – with fascinating results. The client's testimonials to me about their experience have been heart-warming. I was very skeptical in the beginning, but I have no more doubts. In short, I say, " Incredible but true". |
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The next week we spoke to Zeus. Zeus is 11 years old and had always been leash aggressive to dogs and people, but only when he was with Margo. Zeus was playful and nonaggressive at doggie day care, the kennel, the groomer, and displayed good social skills when Margo wasn’t around Zeus. During these times he was, in his words, “off duty”. He was also often, but not always, very appropriate on leash around small, white dogs, but he was always aggressive with medium and large dogs. Zeus communicated very clearly that this 11-year behavior was to protect Margo from all dogs and people. He saw this as his job. We first explained to Zeus that it was Margo’s desire for Zeus to choose a different job. In Margo’s words,“Zeus questioned every behavior change we asked for and was very clear that he would need a lot of help learning the new behavior since he had practiced "warrior dog" behavior for 11 years. I started using clicker training as well as releasing him from his leash when he was around small, white, non-aggressive dogs with the command "go play". He caught on very quickly and generalized to non-white dogs as well as medium sized dogs very quickly. Within less than a month, he had, in his words, adopted his new job of being "friendly dog". He continues to have issues with some dogs and always remembers them and immediately reverts to old behavior when he sees them. However, he now calms within seconds rather than minutes and occasionally will, with my help, ignore them totally. In general, he has worked very hard at being "friendly dog". Our walks are now fun rather than a chore and he is clearly very proud of himself. He loves to have Cindy check in with him and tell him what a wonderful dog he is and, of course, he agrees and also always reminds her how cute he is!” Over a series of sessions, we addressed his reaction to people working around the condos; people suddenly entering an elevator, and people wanting to pet him on their walks. Zeus was active in the behavioral planning, offering many ways to help him change his old habits. In every situation Margo and Zeus worked as a team, problem solving and determining exactly what she wanted him to do and what he needed from Margo to create these changes. |
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In desperation, I asked for help with my latest problem – mice. With no cat here for the first time this winter, I think every mouse in the county moved in. They had eaten every bit of food in my house and were working on my clothes. Cindy told them they had worn out their welcome and it was time to leave. We suggested an area to them where they might find a barn. I feel like there were hundreds here and now they are gone. Cindy is now The Pied Piper of Frankfort!! |
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Cindy talked to Lucie: she thought she was about to be replaced because she wasn't working out. And she was having none of that. When Cindy explained to her that Yona was here for her and that Lucie would never have to leave this home her attitude took a 180 degree turn. That night, she let Yona lick her head! I've made arrangements to adopt Charlie as well. Lucie was not too thrilled about the 'crowd' but since she knew them both and 'we' had enough space to share with them, she was okay with Charlotte becoming another room mate. Yona and Charlie were so excited to be together again. What started out as a hostile environment ended up becoming this peaceful and happy Trio! It wouldn't have been possible without Cindy's warm and caring help! Thank you so very much! |
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Laura Anthony, Licensed Massage Therapist |
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Michelle C & Eve After one conversation with Cindy, her bucking problems disappeared (and are still gone 1 year later!). It seems Eve thought her bucking was how she should convey to me her feeling of happiness! Cindy also helped me feel so much better about the loss of my dog Tyson. She was able to communicate with him and assure me that he was doing fine. |
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She told you she didn't like to be crated at night and you told her why she was being crated (elimination in the house). After our conversation, I did not put her in the crate and we've had no accidents since! She now sleeps on her dog bed in my room. Thank you so much for your time. Jazzy and I are very happy! |
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Laura Pierce |
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Kristie B and Tristan
Ah-ra Cho and Ever
Lisa S, Calliope & Thea
Meg, Savvy and Tyler Jones
Margo F and Zeus
Angelika
Sharon W. and Huckleberry
Deranda McDade with Mr. Cassandra and Bella
Nina and Jessie
Elizabeth & Jazzy
Susan Robbins, Paradigm Kennel
Liz Norris and Mr. O'Malley